Yves here. I have to confess to being one of those people who really does not get much pleasure out of “leisure” save I love sleeping and have terrific dreams. Exercise is physical maintenance. It’s another flavor of work. I’ve never been any good at sports (to the degree that trying to engage in them would get me injured), I don’t like games, and can’t relate to the concept of picking up a hobby. But since I have no free time, what to do with it doesn’t come up as an issue.
I also believe that the author is way off base in trying to attribute causality here, that people who have a negative view of leisure are therefore stressed. Feeling you have to or are expected to do what others regard as fun….because convention, because relationship, because family…is draining, not energizing, since you have to pretend to be enjoying if you are not to cause friction and make matters worse.
Finally, the study methodology the author used is highly questionable. People lie on surveys about their preferences all the time. This survey may well have been accidentally sorting for agreeability. Agreeable people are more social and get less bothered about doing thing for the sake of pleasing others, so they’d tend to report themselves as liking to engage in more activities than not agreeable people. A not agreeable person might also discern the purpose of the study (which a little too obviously seems to be “What is wrong with those people who can’t have a good time? You’re supposed to like doing this fun stuff!”) as annoying and presumptuous and would fight with it in their responses. Making me play a game like Tetris as part of a study would piss me off.
Put it another way, I’m not sure a marketing professor should be taking a stab at psychology.
By Selin Malkoc, Associate Professor of Marketing, The Ohio State University. Originally published at The Conversation
When I first took my now-husband to Turkey, I tried to prepare myself for anything that could go wrong – delayed flights, language difficulties, digestion issues.
But I wasn’t ready when, as we walked into a beautiful beach club on the Aegean coast, he grumbled, “What are we going to do?”
“What do you mean?” I said. “Lie down, enjoy the sun and the sea.”
“But what about the things to do – beach volleyball, Frisbees, water sports?”
“There isn’t any of that. We’re just here to relax.”
“There isn’t any of that. We’re just here to relax.”
This was the first time I got a sense of our cultural differences. He’s American and I’m Turkish. He needed to “do stuff.” I wanted to chill. Over the years, he became better at relaxing – more Turkish, if you will.
But I started noticing all the ways the imperative to “do stuff” kept marching along in the U.S.
It morphed and migrated into pithy catchphrases like YOLO – “you only live once” – and “rise and grind.” I saw it in the way people bragged about how busy they were, as if it were a badge of honor. And I noticed it in the rise of “hustle culture,” or the collective urge to get as much done in as little time as possible, while always keeping an eye on the next opportunity.
Underlying all of it is the belief that resting or relaxing is a waste of time.
I wondered: How might these attitudes influence people’s well-being? And are some cultures more likely than others to promote such beliefs?
Ruining All the Fun
In one study, 141 undergraduate students participated at our behavioral lab at the Ohio State University. They arrived to complete a series of surveys in which we asked them the extent to which they agreed with certain statements – “Time spent on leisure activities is often wasted time,” “Most leisure activities are a way to burn time” – that measured whether they endorsed the idea that leisure is pointless.
During these otherwise monotonous and tedious studies, participants watched four funny and popular YouTube videos that were rated entertaining by a different set of participants. After watching all four videos, participants indicated how much they enjoyed them.
We found that participants who believed leisure to be wasteful didn’t enjoy the videos as much.
In a follow-up study, we asked participants to indicate how much they enjoyed engaging in a variety of leisurely experiences – some active, like exercising, and some passive, like watching TV. Others were social – hanging out with friends – or solitary, such as meditating.
We found that those who viewed leisure as wasteful tended to get less enjoyment out of all of the different types of activities. Furthermore, these people were also more likely to be stressed, anxious and depressed.
An Attitude That’s Tough to Shake
In a different study, we wanted to see the extent to which this was a uniquely American phenomenon. So we recruited participants from France, the U.S. and India – countries chosen for being low, medium and high, respectively, on Hofstede’s industry-indulgence dimension, which captures the extent to which a given culture is work-oriented and values self-reliance.
We asked them to indicate the degree to which they agreed with the idea that leisure is wasteful. Consistent with the prevailing stereotypes, there were far fewer French participants who believed that leisure was wasteful compared to American and, especially, Indian ones.
But French people who held a negative view of leisure were as likely to be stressed, anxious and depressed as their American and Indian counterparts. So while Americans and Indians might more readily believe that leisure is wasteful, the consequences of holding this belief are universal.
The COVID-19 pandemic has had a pronounced effect on the way we live, work and socialize. During this period, many people have taken a step back and reevaluated their priorities.
We wondered whether people’s attitudes toward leisure had shifted. Since we had data from both pre- and post-pandemic studies, we were able to compare the two.
To our surprise, we didn’t find any evidence of these beliefs declining after the pandemic.
To us, this revealed how entrenched the belief that leisure is wasteful can be.
Another study affirmed it. In this one, participants read an article that either discussed the efficacy of coffee makers or described leisure in one of three possible ways: wasteful, unproductive or productive. Participants then played the video game Tetris for five minutes and told us how enjoyable it was. We found that those who read an article describing leisure as wasteful and unproductive didn’t enjoy the game as much as those who read about leisure being productive or read about coffee makers.
However, describing leisure as productive didn’t increase enjoyment beyond its baseline levels. So it appears that framing leisure as productive – say, as a good way to manage stress or recharge your batteries – doesn’t increase how much people enjoy leisure.